Never say never. Unless its these 8 things Ill never repeat

Never say never. Unless its these 8 things Ill never repeatNever say never. Unless its these 8 things Ill never repeatI know. Never is a long time. But some lessons are learned so as leid to be repeated. Some moments are lived so as not to ever have to cycle through them again. Barring all momentary lapse of memories, intuition, or good judgment, Ill never repeat these againIll never Assume theyre fine.Our women are strong. But notsostrong that they dont need our love and support. We gotta show up, even when theyve got a bold face of courage painted on their heart of sorrow.Ill never Try to fit the mold.The only mold worth fitting is the one youre breaking out of. Because learning that youre not meant for a mold of any kind, that youre meant to change and grow and evolve, opens you up to be as brilliantly and energeticallyyouas possible.Ill never Run a marathon.Do I even need to explain why Ill never do this again? You runners, I applaud you.Ill never Wear a full-zip dress with nothi ng under it.Listen, sometimes zippers fail. And other times, they fail at impossibly tragic times. And even worse, sometimes you end up at a glitzy party with a dress hanging like a hospital gown around your neck. Bare ass. With your bestie hugging you from behind so no one sees you.Ill never Let truth go unsaid.Speaking your truth, especially when the truth is hard and the speaking is hard, is well, hard.Eventuallyis your best friend here. Make sure your truth gets saideventually, even if you cant do it right now.Ill never Stay in controlling relationships (of any kind).The relationship doesnt have to be romance for it to be wildly controlling. If someone is squashing the fire that makes youyouand loses their shit as soon as you step out of the thoughts, expectations, or container that theyve deemed for you. Check it. See how and where your emotions and actions might be controlled. And then talk to someone who can help you navigate it.Surround yourself with people who want you to b e the most of you, not the least of it.Ill never Choose text over voice (when it matters).Pick up the damn phone. If you gotta fret over how this comes across, buck up and face it either on the phone or face-to-face.Ill never Forget my power.We have the force of a thousand galaxies within us. And we mustnt forget that.But I know,neveris a long time. If were being real, Ill probably forget my no full-zip rule when the dress is pretty enough. I might squash my own truth in the pursuit of someone or something else. I might assume theyre fine. I might send an schmelzglas instead. I might get caught up in the molds. But Ill come back to myself, and so will you, becauseneveris a really long time. Lets just repeat whatever doesnt serve us as little as we can.Thisarticlewas originally posted onMaxieMcCoy.com.